MiX Blueprint: Purity - Week 1 - Questions for Guys

How do we talk differently about girls when they’re not around than we do when they are around?
If you or your friends see an attractive girl, what is your or their response?

If other girls ever hear the way you talk about girls you find attractive, describe how that could make them feel.
What behaviors, dress, language, etc. might cause a guy to be more attracted to a girl?
If one of our sisters sees that guys are attracted to girls who act in that way, how might this affect them?
How can we encourage our sisters to hear the Biblical message about how they should act and not simply a marred cultural message?
When you begin looking for a wife, what aspects of a woman would you look for?
What kind of media is there that affects how we view women?
Pornography is abundant, especially today when the Internet makes everything so accessible. Probably almost anyone who has browsed the Internet for any substantial length of time has accidentally run across pornography. How have you experienced this to be true?
How can porn shape the way we view women?
Do you think Christians are immune to be tempted sexually by things like pornography? If yes, how? If not, tell us about that.
It is clear that pornography is sinful. Jesus himself says that if we look at a woman lustfully, we have cheated on our wives in our hearts. Think about that – you’re not even married yet, but you could be cheating on your wife. How do you think it would make your future wife feel to know if you are viewing pornography?

What could be dangerous about a sin like pornography more than something that more directly involves other people?
If a Christian gives into the temptation to watch pornography, what course of action should he take?
Computer software exists that keeps logs of web sites that you visit and sends them to someone else to review. Whether you are struggling with pornography right now or not, do you think this could be useful?

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